Happy Father's Day!

Today is Father's Day. I strongly believe that fathers are very important and I wish every child had a father actively involved in their lives, preferably married to their mother and everyone living together in happiness and love! I was lucky enough to have that and, while my father worked pretty long hours for much of my growing-up years, he was a strong influence. I owe a lot to my parents and the good things they gave me, such as faith and love. They were kind to me, wanted to do what was right, and encouraged me to be my best. I really wanted to please them and continue to want that.

I owe a lot not only to my parents but to my grandparents and great-grandparents and all the ancestors I know about. As far as I know, they were a very faithful bunch and were dedicated to their families. That is a great legacy to give your children.

My husband was not as lucky. His parents were divorced when he was 3 and I can see the effects of that in his family to this day. Fortunately my husband has been able to overcome that challenge in his life and has been a wonderful father and husband. Despite the hard work involved, he keeps at it and is committed to being there for us. I am so grateful to have him in my life! Happy Father's Day!

Here are a few pictures of him at the beach with some of our children:

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