We were thrilled to recently meet our newest little granddaughter. We now have 6 grandsons and 4 granddaughters. It is a privilege to have so many grandchildren--I have many friends my age and older that have not been blessed with grandchildren yet. One of my high school friends has four children, none of whom have married yet. I have an older friend that has four sons. Two of them died as young adults and one of them has never married. Her one married son has twin girls and they live on the other side of the country. So she takes a lot of trips to see them and loves her time with them. Our grandchildren enrich our lives and I feel greatly blessed to live by 6 of them.
The original post was written in January of 2015. I wrote an update at the bottom of this post in March 2021. A few months ago, a friend of mine told me about something she was doing in her family to help her family function better. Her teenage autistic son had been struggling a lot so they had been working with behavior therapists to help him and this "Do Dots Family System" had been recommended. As she described it, I was greatly intrigued since it sounded like something I wanted to implement at my own house. I looked into it and decided to purchase it right after Thanksgiving. Here is my review of how it has worked for us over the last six weeks or so. The basic idea of the chart is that children need to take care of their responsibilities before they get any privileges. It strongly reinforces the concept of "Work Before Play" . The chart helps children see in a very visual way that, until they have completed their responsibilities, they are on Le...
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